Lessons

The last year has not been an easy one...but it has taught me alot of things..

Those that matter will stand by you...those that you thought matters might not..but it is no big loss..cos the one that did...you will treasure and be grateful for the rest of your life...and the one that did not was never there anyway. 

Often when the going gets tough..it is easy to shed the unwanted elements in your life. Easier than ever actually

Resilience is not about strength, its about desperation ...Strength is not consistent nor is weakness.

Allow yourself a little melodrama..it is cathartic..

People and sometimes the ones closest to you will say crap...treat it as crap ...how can they know how to deal with you when you yourself cant comprehend the intricacies of your own torn mind 

Live life on your terms...no one..absolutely no one can do anything about your life but yourself...so take responsibility for your life the way it is..and let it be or build on it..its upto you..but puhlease....dont look down on it.no matter how tempted you are..if you do give in at times ..fight yourself,,,cos if you don't you are sentencing yourself to a very depressing and dark world...you might win only ten percent of the time..but that is good enough..

Love can survive death..ask me ..how much i love him still...he hasn't given me any reasons not to love him and he never can..so i guess it will continue..lucky guy..dont you think so?:-)