No right way

some of them yell... 

some of them clamp up...

some of them cry ...

some of them don't....

some of them paint..

some of them write..

some of them sing...

some of them travel..

some of them blame... 

some of them deny.. 

some of them are strong

some of them grow weak

some of them hate ..

some of them love.....

some of them grow closer to god...

some of them move further away....

some give more of themselves..

some withhold..

there is no right or wrong..you grieve the way you want to...when you want to ..how you want to...there is no right or wrong.. no one knows you better than the one you lost and yourself....